“So you think you’ve been hard done by? Now what’s harder, dwelling over it or using it to leap forward?”
– Amir Zoghi –
You only dwell on it because you like it. You like playing the character that has been hard done by, you like being the underdog because you feel more significant when you overcome the odds and if you don’t overcome it, well it’s because you were hard done by. Not true? Then let go of the story that keeps you limited and only use it to propel you forward and not to measure who you are.